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Fatima has also experienced hostility from others who react to her white face beneath the hijab. "They seem to take personal offence at the fact that I have chosen a religion and way of life deemed only suitable for backward women from Muslim countries. The idea that an educated Western woman would choose it puzzles them."

It also puzzles some Muslim-born women. Selay Ghaffar is the director of Humanitarian Assistance for the Women and Children of Afghanistan (HAWCA), an Afghan national NGO dedicated to working for the social wellbeing of women and children who live in Afghanistan or in refugee communities in Pakistan. Much of its work focuses on male violence towards women and children. Ghaffar is clear that women living under Islam find it "extremely difficult, if not impossible" to achieve anything close to equality with men. "Violence and abuse are allowed, even expected, because under Islam the man's word is law."

Dr Haifaa Jawad is Senior Lecturer in Islamic and Middle Eastern Studies at Birmingham University and is currently writing a book on the contribution of European converts to Islam. She believes that converting to Islam "provides a sense of belonging and a clear identity. Islam has clarity to it that some other religions or lifestyles do not. Some women in the West may feel let down by feminism. But it is probably for spiritual reasons that many women convert. We have to ask, why go through with it despite the negative view of Islam at present?" 

All the women I spoke to insisted that Islam affords them rights as women that no other religion does. As one woman told me: "In Islam, women have a much higher status than in other religions. In Christianity, for example, the women were regarded as someone who did not even have a soul." (This is, of course, untrue.) 

Yasmin is a British-born woman who converted 30 years ago. In her late teens, Yasmin travelled to Yemen with a friend who was looking for her estranged father. She was looking forward to starting university later that year and to a career as a journalist. While there she was gang-raped. "My friend left me. I don't think she could cope. I was desperately lonely and going a bit off my head. A nurse told me Yemeni girls don't get raped because they dress modestly and don't go out alone. It sounds mad but I decided there and then I would convert, and I did."

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Luke Ahead
May 18th, 2010
5:05 PM
I can understand why males convert to Islam but I am puzzled with western women converting to Islam. It is natural to seek some sort of identity in this crazy world but it is unnatural to give up your freedom and seek subjugation voluntarily. Look at the case of Ayaan Hirsi Ali - it's easier to join Islam than to leave. Regards

Anonymous
May 17th, 2010
10:05 PM
This piece is so shallow. As unmarried Muslim male, the relation between me, my sisters and my mother is not in any way demonstrated by what in the article. We are a family, not enemies to each other, as this article is trying to portray. This article is so out of touch with reality. I will give just one example, a man who beats his wife is looked at as a coward in my culture.

LKJ
May 17th, 2010
10:05 PM
My conversion was intellectually driven. At one time I was a devout Christian, and I even attended seminary with the intention of becoming a Lutheran minister. I had too many questions, however, and my professors didn't have the answers. I left the seminary and started reading. When I picked up the Qur'an, I was looking for the mistakes. Instead, I found a beautiful book that had to have been inspired because no man could have written it. I've been a Muslim for nearly 30 years. My husband has always treated me well and we've taught our sons to be kind to their future wives. All of my sons know how to clean and cook and even bake. There is nothing repressive about the way we live as Muslims. It's true that some Muslim men are domineering and even violent. That is the fault of the man, though, and not the religion.

Anonymous
May 2nd, 2010
6:05 AM
Some people like things strict and puritanical and a lot will come from religous families whose church has become too soft and wishy-washy for them. The non-religous version of women like this become PC kommisars or radical feminists.

TRH
May 1st, 2010
4:05 PM
Subservience, for many, is a richer and more interesting experience than authority.

Lulu
May 1st, 2010
3:05 PM
What a biased article. The fact that you refuse to include anything but negitive stories is very bad journalism. There are unhappy women from all walks of life, including many feminists.

HarveyX
April 30th, 2010
1:04 PM
Low self-worth. Also, Western feminism has neutered the Western man; we can't bring ourselves to be strict towards women like a muslim man can. Which is no bad thing but some women still seek a "strong hand" to guide them through life's little trials and tribulations and like being told what to do, when and how. Islam means subjugation, some women just like being subjugated by muslim men.

Astrid
April 29th, 2010
10:04 AM
The triumph of ignorance !

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