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Something similar has happened to the idea of the gentleman. It too flows on underground, which makes it hard to estimate how much strength is left in it. I would guess that at least half the present Cabinet think of themselves as gentlemen. The prime minister is clearly a Christian gentleman. His Anglicanism is an essential part of him, and one that few of the political commentators now writing have the faintest hope of understanding. Nor if they understood it would they approve of it. No wonder he tries to modernise himself, and shed any trace of  being a starchy, old-fashioned upholder of marriage, by informing us at every possible opportunity that he is also in favour of gay marriage. What an Anglican concession that is to the spirit of the age: faintly painful to himself, at least until he gets used to it, a self-mortification which shows how genuinely willing he is to compromise, but which also starts to look a bit obsessive.

David Cameron's gentlemanliness is, he fears, an even worse political handicap. If it were generally recognised that he is a gentleman, this would be taken by ill-natured people, including the columnists mentioned above, as conclusive evidence that he is snobbish and out-of-date. There would be a wilful confounding of the social and moral senses of the word "gentleman", by chippy individuals who have never been elected to anything, not even the Bullingdon Club.

So the prime minister yields to the temptation to play down that side of himself, with the unfortunate result that he sounds, as we nowadays say, less "authentic". The late Shirley Letwin argues, in The Gentleman in Trollope, that there is an unselfconsciousness about a gentleman's morality, and wonders: "Can an inherited moral practice maintain its character once it is reflected upon self-consciously?" Dr Letwin compares this morality to "a language which has long been spoken by people who do not themselves recognise its grammar, who even lack the concept of grammar". In her book, she identifies with marvellous discrimination the grammar of the gentlemanliness found in Trollope's novels.

It is impossible to think of a modern novelist whose work would reward such study. There is a gap in our culture: we have lost the gentleman without replacing him. That, perhaps, was part of the difficulty with comprehensive schools. They were meant to bring about greater equality, but we did not quite know, at the individual level, what they were aiming to achieve; what kind of men and women they were hoping to produce. I am not, incidentally, seeking to imply that in the days when the Christian gentleman was a recognised type, everyone behaved well. Christians are not always Christian. Crimes, follies and misfortunes will always occur. But to have an elevated standard of conduct increases the chances that some people will live up to it, as well as the danger of failure and hypocrisy.

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Jon
September 7th, 2012
2:09 AM
The decline of the gentleman is very interesting, but now as it appears along with a thousand other signs of cultural feudalization, I cannot somehow make myself yearn for the gentleman's return. The education of gentlemen is a fundamentally aristocratic act. There is no getting around it -- and this includes the "fundamentally hypocritical" connotation; a gentleman must be blind to his own self-interest and self-regard. There are always those few wonderful examples, but they are equally as rare as the wonderful examples of gentlemanly scientific diligence and genius: notable because of their rarity, but remembered as part of a golden age whose chief characteristic was... (drumroll please) -- the favored position of the gentleman.

Gregory Smith
September 6th, 2012
12:09 AM
Read Shirley Letwin's book, The Gentleman in Trollope, referred to in this article. Anyone who is interested enough in this subject to have read this far would find it fascinating - perhaps even uplifting. It is a work of astute observation and intelligence, on a subject that deserves far more attention than it gets.

Lucius Annaeus
September 5th, 2012
9:09 PM
I think the report of the demise of the gentleman is exaggerated. I shall give you one example. In the recent horrific shootings in Aurora, Colorado, it was mentioned that three of the victims were young men who died whilst protecting their girlfriends from the shooter by covering the girls with their own bodies.

Charles Jaffe
September 5th, 2012
6:09 PM
Doesn't the concept of being a gentleman come from ancient Greece? Did not the Renaissance revivification of such attitudes,adapted by the Christian culture create the European gentleman. Much of what we consider gentlemanly behavior doesn't seem specifically Christian to me but shares characteristics with pagan and oriental variants. A specifically Christian gentleman then may be a stage in a continuing evolution.

BMerker
September 5th, 2012
5:09 PM
In letting the ideal of 'the gentleman' slip into oblivion the modern world has missed the chance to equip itself with an universal ideal or identity-model for adulthood, something it so obviously both needs and lacks. It is not inconceivable that a transition could have been made from the Christian gentleman to a secular ideal of gentleman and gentlewoman, embodying the best we can conceive of in terms of personality, bearing, and dealings. I am afraid that Andrew Gimson is right, however, no such transition has been made. The gentleman is no longer a live ideal, and that should be an occasion for sadness and regret. But perhaps it is still not too late???

stephenkennamer...
September 5th, 2012
4:09 PM
The conservative nostalgia for a way we never were always astounds me. As I have just finished reading Dickens's Bleak House, forgive me for demurring from the rosy picture of Victorian morality presented here. The author bestows the accolade of "so great a man" upon that inveterate careerist and opportunist Cardinal Newman, who was so narcissistically impaired that he dealt with every petty theological dispute by moving to another sacred venue and trying once again to have it all his own way. From Calvinism to Anglicanism to Roman Catholicism, he moved ever rightward in search for an authoritarianism that he could call his own. But switching never made him more tolerant: he could never endure any dissent from the dogma of whichever catechism he was currently espousing or whichever church he was currently attending. When he was a fervent Anglican at Oxford, he tried to keep his former evangelical associates out. When he became a fervent Catholic in his Third Great Awakening, he wanted Catholics in. Early and late, it must be Newman's Oxford. As Nietzsche said: "A religious person thinks only of himself." But I suppose Newman was a gentleman--held the door for any ladies who had to be expelled from the Oxford library. The good old days!

andrewe5
September 5th, 2012
1:09 PM
That's Alec Douglas-Home, Bernie, not Hume. You're confusing him with a lesser order of Humes. Goodness, how quickly we forget. Sic transit gloria mundi.

Dismanirie
September 5th, 2012
12:09 PM
The monstrous burden taken on by my parents to educate my brother and me in the preparatory and public school system in the UK may not have been entirely wasted. Although my brother determined that school was not for him by his mid-teens, I was too chicken to run away, and endured the full gamut of 12 years in two institutions. I look back on that time with little emotion, but have daily been gratified by evidence that my education (in the literal sense) conferred on me a humanistic discipline to always consider the perspectives and interests of the other party. "Do unto others ...." is the one great philosophical tenet of behaviour which these twelve years of schooling gave me. It may be presumptuous to assume that I am a "gentleman" by virtue of this education, but the truth is that the syllabus and teaching examples are sorely lacking in today's curricula and styles of schooling. God bless my parents for their sacrifice!

Bill Robertson
September 5th, 2012
12:09 PM
My dear Bernard the Falconer, there is at least one gentleman left in the world. Good day to you, sir - good day to you!

Jan Sand
September 5th, 2012
11:09 AM
Although I am neither English nor Christian nor a graduate of any of the mentioned institutions I try to behave decently to all humans and whatever animals come within my contacts. I take occasional exception to mosquitoes and cockroaches but I try to be fair. Turning the other cheek to some creatures of the lower species such as the bulk of politicians and those engaged in financial manipulation merely presents them with opportunities so they must be treated with the harshest responses.

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