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The couple divorced five years ago after ten years of marriage. "He really changed after 9/11. All of a sudden, he stopped drinking alcohol and began to pray and attend mosque. He would endlessly talk about the Zionist conspiracy and how Zionists rule the world. I found tapes and books that just fed his paranoia about Jews. I disliked the radical Muayid more than I did the non-devout one."

What is the attraction of Islam for Saskia today? "Women are respected and not seen as sex objects. Western women are defined by their appearance but we are viewed as whole human beings. I find the veil liberating." Saskia tells me she gets "particularly mad" when white men tell Muslim women they should not cover up. "In whose interests are they arguing?"

On gender segregation, she says: "I think it is good for Islamic women. Western women are often rivals but Muslim women have a much stronger sense of sisterhood."

Rahila Gupta is a writer and member of Women against Fundamentalism, set up in the 1980s in response to the Salman Rushdie affair. She believes that dissatisfaction with consumerism and the perceived moral decadence of the West has sometimes pushed people into a search for religious or spiritual transcendence. However, she does not think that white women converting to Islam is the start of a new trend. "Islam is superficially attractive in that it offers an analysis [and condemnation] of the abuse of women's bodies to sell products but once you look deeper, as with most religions, it is women who are blamed for men's predatory behaviour and who must cover themselves for protection. "

Inequality between men and women exists in Christian, Jewish and Muslim communities but perceptions of female sexuality differ considerably within those religions. The Islamic view of women as active sexual beings who are encouraged to enjoy sex with their husbands is uncomfortable for the traditional Muslim man, and therefore stricter control of women is seen as necessary. 

Islam's obsession with virginity and childbirth has led to gender segregation and early marriage. In Muslim countries, Western feminism is seen as irrelevant and part of the wider process of colonisation. I attended a Saturday afternoon meeting of the New Muslim Sisters at the notorious East London Mosque. Last year, the venue was criticised for hosting a pre-recorded talk by Anwar al-Awlaki, the radical cleric based in Yemen whom US officials claim acted as a spiritual leader for three of the 9/ 11 hijackers. The room is packed with women and their children. We sit in a circle and introduce ourselves. I am the only one with an uncovered head. I explain that I am researching a piece for a magazine on women who convert. No one is uncomfortable with me being there and the room is vibrating with warmth and friendliness. There are women from Tanzania, Australia, France and the UK, a number of black and mixed-race Londoners and two Anglo-Asians born into Sikh families. There are also Muslim-born women who say they are "reclaiming" their religion, having been brought up by fairly secular parents. The group leader tells me I should use the term "revert not convert. All people were Muslim once so we are just reverting to our natural state."

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sergio
April 21st, 2012
4:04 AM
Perhaps this should help where the article came short…hopefully http://nikk.no/Women%27s+Conversions+to+Islam:+Equality+and+Obedience.9U...

www.thosepeoples.com
April 20th, 2012
10:04 PM
Position of women in Islam is so precious, because the brilliant generation will be born from her womb. In the culture of ignorance before Islam, women are considered very low and not a little contempt even when born girls will be buried alive. They looked at her with one eye, and even despised and worthless. After the arrival of Islam, proved the women can breathe free air and given her the task of building a civilized society.

Nurture
February 20th, 2012
1:02 PM
"having grown up with the benefits that four decades of feminism have brought" Yes, feminism has brought some benefits, such as equal pay, equal job opportunities etc. However, in my opinion it has brought with it many problems as well, and it is these problems that such women are rebelling against.

Anonymous
April 3rd, 2011
12:04 PM
I agree that this article is incredibly biased. The writer claims to be searching for an answer to her questions, but it seems like she actively sought the most messed up examples. There are examples of oppression and mysogyny everywhere, in every tradition and religion. Islam is not the culprit. As someone who has earned a MA in the subject of Islam/consciousness and feminism, who is married to a native born Muslim, who raises children with him, who practices Islam herself, who has traveled all over the world, I can assure you that it is not the original and true message of Islam to control women and treat them poorly. People who do so in the name of God are making a serious mistake.

Anonymous
November 6th, 2010
10:11 PM
Is this article for real? It sounds like the author is finding the most messed-up people in the world to write about! I'm sure if she conducted an unbiased research her findings would be much different.

Alex
July 3rd, 2010
3:07 AM
If we in the West treasured our cultural and ethnic heritage, there would be a lot less of this.

cartimandua
June 19th, 2010
3:06 PM
One of the interviewees said it. She wanted certainty and there is the age old bargain of "obey and you will be looked after". This is a lie of course, but it looks good for a while.Then some people truely are masochistic. Converting after a gang rape suggests not all being mentally well at all. A huge need for certainty and even faux security.

J
June 18th, 2010
1:06 AM
There are as many reasons to convert as there are converts, but there are themes. Saskia - became entrenched in rebelling against a controlling Mum? Here was a great way of passive-aggressively attacking her whilst beating her at her own game. Look at me Mum! This is what real control looks like! Etc. The line about wanting certainty and finding it, or at least it's appearance, speaks volumes. A powerful psychological need for something solid to push against which holds firm. Mum and Dad didn't fit the bill so she found an alternative. Fatima - subsequent to abuse and psychological trauma she finds the illusion of perfect safety and a place to belong and be guarded. Who wouldn't want this? She actually says now she feels she can go anywhere and be safe. Yippee. Except it's just not the case. I've personally been told two separate accounts of having one's backside groped when performing Tawaf, by two seperate women years apart, with no knowledge of the other. In the crowds and with the anonymity some men's hands get to wandering and being yards from the kabaa doesn't seem to have troubled them too much. Plenty of muslim don't believe a word in the quraan and many millions can't read a word of it. What they are clear about though is that it maintains their privileged position and gives them all the best cards to play. Warm feelings of acceptance, belonging and perfect safety are conflated with veracity. But their are cracks, the doubts keep poking their head over the parapet. Yasmin - In a state of abject shock she is told she is to blame for her violation and told how to avoid a repeat of this unspeakable traumatic horror. she promptly finds an abusive man and recreates her victimhood, perhaps a combined attempt at searching for meaning through repetition and self-punishment for her internalised badness? In time her battered self-esteem recovers somewhat. All religions are vehicles for the negotiation of power. They serve the most selfish and ruthless men in society, surrounded by herds of useful idiots who can't make it through without empty promises of safety and justice from substitute parents. As a male who considers himself a feminist I find this article profoundly depressing but hold on to glimmers of hope around Yasmin and Fatima. I'm just the same in that I need to hold on to something impossible, namely my fantasy of all being made better, but at least I know it and can argue that it is healthier and more constructive.

Truegazer
May 22nd, 2010
7:05 AM
"Perhaps it is my disdain for all religion, perhaps my radical feminism." Perhaps it is because you have a sound head upon your shoulders. It's a big world. There are lots of freaks and oddballs, some perfectly nice. I've an American friend who is becoming an Orthodox priest, another who follows the Bhagwan. People are peculiar - just don't try to see the logic in it. There is none.

Anonymous
May 19th, 2010
12:05 PM
Full disclosure, I am a practicing Catholic, married white woman with a college degree and fairly high-level job in health care. That said, I walked away from this article without clarity or an enlightened concept of "Why do Western Women Convert?" because this "journalism" piece was so heavily peppered with commentary and judgement and obvious agenda it was impossible to pick out facts and the perspective of the women interviewed. Of course, the pub is called "Standpoint" so I guess I should have prepared myself for the skew. I was genuinely looking forward to some straightforward reporting. Disappointing the author was too inexperienced or immature to deliver.

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